If you are like most people, you are likely to make two serious mistakes when it comes to saving your relationship. After a break-up, people often respond by sending tons of flowers, music, constant texting, phone calls and all the others insincere or desperate actions. These actions have little if any effect of revitalizing the relationship and bringing love, passion, and life back to the relationship again. Saving your relationship requires more than gimmicks.
The steps that worked when you fell in love, generally will not work when your lover leaves you and ends the relationship. Even if you score some maintenance sex from time to time, there is no indication you will change your intimate connection and vibration. Do you remember when you met and fell in love? Those days, weeks and months were the very best of the Law of Attraction working in conjunction with your desires. Virtually all love affairs, in the beginning, are an expression of the Universe working in harmony with your heart, soul, and desires Then over time, the vibrations begin to shift, and lower. Negative feelings and beliefs become part of the relationship, and before you know it you are attracting a divorce or a break-up. We are what we believe. As our beliefs change in regards to our relationships, our feeling change as well. Feelings are the connecting link to the Universe and are the fuel to what makes the Law of Attraction manifest.
The first real mistake is that people make after a break-up is they fail to take action or they take the wrong action. I am not talking about texting, sending flowers, writing emails, etc. I am speaking of the work of raising your personal vibration. Remember, chances are over a period your vibration and the vibration of the relationship began to separate and become filled with negativity. Your first and most important key is to learn the secrets of clearing your negative beliefs than changing them into empowering beliefs that raise your vibration. You must become a fitting container for the love you desire to attract. There is a formula called, L.O.V.E. “The Law of Vibrating Energy.” Since you have broken up, your relationship has little positive vibrating energy or L.O.V.E.
From years of personal experience and mentoring successful relationships all over the world, I have discovered that the best first action you can take in saving your relationship is to consult a professional mentor or coach. Look, you are too deep in the forest to see the vibrations or lack thereof. A professional will know exactly how to help you change your energy field, as well as advice on the kinds of moves you can make that will have a positive outcome. The secret is not to do this alone, but to have the entire force of the Universe working with you and for you as your creative partner. Most broken marriages and relationships can be saved, but to save your relationship it will take more than a patch job, it will take real L.O.V.E.
The Second mistake is consulting friends, family, workmates and psychics. All of these people may mean well, but few of them understand the quantum level of energy vibration necessary to save your relationship. Personally, I have seen more relationships destroyed by psychics who claimed there is a curse than anything else. Psychics and Astrologers are dangerous. You have no way of knowing if they are giving you advice or if their subconscious is using you to put food on the table. Besides, about 90% of them are outright frauds. As for family and friends, they mean well, but often their advice is tainted and will not help you attract the love and passion you desire.
These two mistakes are the most damaging mistakes you can make if you have recently gone through a break-up. If you are sincere about wanting to get your ex back, you will need more than a real apology; you will need to learn the keys and secrets to shifting your vibration. A certified Miracle Mentor and Alchemy Life Coach is the best decision you can make. Every second after the break-up counts. The clock is ticking and the longer you are separated, the likelihood is that the longer you will be separated. Remember, an action is a real key to attraction.