If you are like most people, you are likely to make two serious mistakes when it comes to saving your relationship. After a break-up, people often respond by sending tons of flowers, music, constant texting, phone calls and all the others insincere or desperate actions. These actions have little if any effect of revitalizing the relationship and bringing love, passion, and life back to the relationship again. Saving your relationship requires more than gimmicks.
The steps that worked when you fell in love, generally will not work when your lover leaves you and ends the relationship. Even if you score some maintenance sex from time to time, there is no indication you will change your intimate connection and vibration. Do you remember when you met and fell in love? Those days, weeks and months were the very best of the Law of Attraction working in conjunction with your desires. Virtually all love affairs, in the beginning, are an expression of the Universe working in harmony with your heart, soul, and desires Then over time, the vibrations begin to shift, and lower. Negative feelings and beliefs become part of the relationship, and before you know it you are attracting a divorce or a break-up. We are what we believe. As our beliefs change in regards to our relationships, our feeling change as well. Feeling are the connecting link to the Universe and are the fuel to what makes the Law of Attraction manifest.
The first real mistake is that people make after a break-up is they fail to take action or they take the wrong action. I am not talking about the effect of texting, sending flowers, writing emails, etc. I am speaking of the work of raising your personal vibration. Remember, chances are over a period your vibration and the vibration of the relationship began to separate and become filled with negativity. Your first and most important key is to learn the secrets of clearing your negative beliefs than changing them into rewarding beliefs that raise your vibration. You must become a fitting container for the love you desire to attract. There is a formula called, L.O.V.E. “The Law of Vibrating Energy.” Since you have broken up, your relationship has little positive vibrating energy or L.O.V.E.
From years of personal experience and mentoring successful relationships all over the world, I have discovered that the best first action you can take in saving your relationship is to consult a professional mentor or coach. Look, you are too deep in the forest to see the vibrations or lack thereof. A professional will know exactly how to help you change your energy field, as well as advice on the kinds of moves you can make that will have a positive outcome. The secret is not to do this alone, but to have the entire force of the Universe working with you and for you as your creative partner. Most broken marriages and relationships can be saved, but to save your relationship it will take more than a patch job, it will take real L.O.V.E.
The Second mistake is consulting friends, family, workmates and psychics. All of these people may mean well, but few of them understand the quantum level of energy vibration necessary to save your relationship. Personally, I have seen more relationships destroyed by psychics who claimed there is a curse than anything else. Psychics are dangerous. You have no way of knowing if they are giving you advice or if their subconscious is using you to put food on the table. Besides, about 90% of them are outright frauds. As for family and friends, they mean well, but often their advice is tainted and will not help you attract the love and passion you desire.
These two mistakes are the most damaging mistakes you can make if you have recently gone through a break-up. If you are sincere about wanting to get your ex back, you will need more than a real apology; you will need to learn the keys and secrets to shifting your vibration. A certified Miracle Mentor and Alchemy Life Coach is the best decision you can make. Every second after the break-up counts. The clock is ticking and the longer you are separated, the likelihood is that the longer you will be separated. Remember, an action is a real key to attraction. Claim your FREE 30 minutes of Miracle Mentoring and Alchemy Life Coaching. We have helped people all over the word save their marriage or relationship, and we can help you too through the process of saving your relationship.
I agree 100% with this article!
Nobody likes to be harassed with excessive text messages talking about how miserable you are or how your life is over with, now that you don’t have that person. The more you focus on those feelings the more you’re likely to attract those feelings again. Simple as that.
Nobody tells you what NOT TO DO but instead people will tell you what TO DO and even if its meant well, they have their own limiting beliefs and if you’ve listened to Robert and/or work with him then you know that we can only accept limitless beliefs!
Invest in yourself and invest in your well being, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. AND expect a magnificent outcome with that person or someone better!!
Amazing article Robert!
Very good point, and when you make an investment in yourself, stick with your investment in time, energy, money or service.
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Currently in the no contact phase for the second time. We were in a non monogamous relationship, we were both leaning towards monogamy together. She wants nothing to do with me now.
I believe she will be yours if you win trust.
I know this is an older article article but I love it. I’ve been in a very rocky place with my love for most of this year and we are currently not living together and he is currently avoiding contact with me. We both went through a major overhaul in our lives and struggled deeply with the circumstances, we hurt each other a lot. At a particular low point very recently when he was drinking heavily and heading for a breakdown which eventually did happen and I was living with my mum, crying daily pretty much, I went to see a medium in hopes of some guidance. The news I received wasn’t pretty. She told me he would have this break down and that did happen. But she also told me that he wouldn’t realise what he had lost until it was too late and he wouldn’t be able to get his act together. The breakdown happened and I got scared that everything she said must have been true. Then I went for an aura cleanse (which was worth it nonetheless) at the same place and I was given the same news. This left me devastated, with little hope.
But then I found Robert and Rachel on YouTube and have been following closely ever since. I’ve come to realise that perhaps this negative prediction was based more on how I felt right then, rather than a possible future outcome. I have come to realise that, while the medium I see is amazing and many of the things she’s told me have been or did become true… There are some things that can only be read based on the vibration you personally give out. She was communicating through our engagement ring at a time when that engagement was on the rocks- of course she’d see negative outcomes! I went to see her feeling hopeless so I was not given hope in return. I went to the aura cleanse at a time of weakness so I didn’t get positivity in return. Through listening to Robert, I know have faith that just because the future looks negative, that doesn’t mean I can’t change it. I will change it, I am raising my vibration and living in a state of positive hope for my partner and our future.
Instead of looking at this situation through the eyes of ‘oh he won’t contact me he’s pushed me away he’s letting me go’ I am instead living through the knowledge that ‘he is healing, while we are apart we are able to raise our vibrations, we are able to regain our strength and self esteem and this will make us a stronger couple who understand each other better in future, this is fixing time and we will be so much better for each other when we resolve our individual issues and allow ourselves to reunite in a healthier way’. I am also reminded that his family and friends know what I’ve been through and understand why I’ve reacted badly, they are still in his life, able to transfer my positive vibration through their positive outlook towards me.
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