Yes, you heard right – intentional manifestor, because you are a manifestor whether you know it or not, and you are manifesting all the time whether you are aware of it or not. Just like juridical system says “ignorance of law excuses no one” meaning that one is bound by law even if one doesn’t know about it, the same principle is applied to the law of attraction. If you misuse the law of attraction, you will not get a fine or a prison sentence, what you will get are actually things, circumstances and relationships that you DO NOT WANT. You create negative outcomes and undesirable things. It has to do with the fact that the law of attraction is impartial. So again, how do you switch off automatic manifesting and take hold of the steering wheel and direct it to your desired destination?
Understand how the law of attraction works. Start learning about it. Get curious and become its ardent student. Knowledge is power and this knowledge will change your life in the ways you cannot even imagine. If you feel you would like to take it to the next level, enroll in a mentoring program. It will be the greatest investment you will ever make, because you are investing in your life and your future.
Get clear on what you desire. If you don’t know what you want, you will end up getting what you don’t want. It is like you going to do your groceries without a list: you will end up buying everything, but the things you needed most. Moreover, if you keep changing your mind about things that you want the Universe will get confused and your vibration will become diluted. Imagine yourself placing an order in a coffee shop – “I would like a Latte please”, one second later you add “No, actually I would like an Americano”, as the waiter starts walking away with your order you shout out “Changed my mind: please get me a Cappuccino”. You would get a confused look from a waiter and a polite invitation to make up your mind.
Shift your focus from the unwanted things to the things that you want. Where your attention goes is where your energy flows. Law of attraction is impartial which means it doesn’t make any difference between positive and negative outcome. It responds to your vibration, not to your wants. No wonder I hear the people say all the time “why did I manifest this; I did not want it?”. I believe you didn’t, but you placed all of your attention on it. In every situation you can either focus on the presence or on the absence of your desire. Be mindful and present in order to catch yourself when you drift off towards the wrong direction.
Become unconditional – I get it – you don’t have a job, your spouse has cheated on you and left you, your dream house got sold to somebody else, the stock market crashed, you were not appointed to the project you were hoping…you may have all the rights in the world to be unhappy, angry, jealous, grumpy and disappointed. But if you place your focus on the outer world, you will keep fueling the problem not the solution. Not your dreams, not your vision, not your desired outcome. You will keep reacting to the outside conditions. If are focusing on the circumstances that you are in today, you are being conditional. Manifesting always means living your vision no matter what. It means ignoring the outside world and directing all your energy to your dreams.
Flip your phrases and thinking from negative to positive. It will make you fuel your energy the right way. What you say imprints your subconscious mind. Your mind always latches onto the most important word in the phrase, so do not say – “I don’t want to lose my job, I do not want to have debts, I no longer want to be in unhappy relationships, I am afraid I will lose my keys, I hope I will not be late”. What your conscious and subconscious mind hear is – “Lose my job, I – debts, unhappy relationships, I lose my keys, I am late”. Say instead – “I want to keep my job, I want to have enough money, I choose to be in happy relationships, I must carefully handle my keys, I will be on time”.
Be selective about your environment and people. Make sure that the energy flows freely in your home, because your home is extension to your energy field. Everything that you surround yourself with should be helping you to get closer to your dreams and goals. Do you have clutter? Do you have things that no longer serve you and connect you to the past energies? Past relationships or past pain? Do you have things that physically make it difficult to get from one place to another, do you have images, objects that make you upset or uneasy in some ways? Get rid of them or pass them on to others.
Be selective with whom you spend time and people you share your ideas with; your counter intentions often times come from the people that are close to you. Listen to empowering things, watch empowering videos, go to high vibrational places, communicate with people that inspire you, lift your spirits up and encourage you to go after your dreams and goals. Be in relationships that support your growth and personal development.
Take care of your body. You surely heard of body mind connection. When it comes to manifesting, your body will either contribute to raising your vibration or lowering it. You choose. When you are active, rested, hydrated, eat clean you take care of your soul’s home – your body and you make it your ally in manifesting. Therefore move that body so that it can generate happy hormones, spend time in nature, in fresh air, so that you align with the flow of nature, do some grounding, sleep so that you wake up full of energy rather than exhausted and having no energy to start a new day, drink plenty of water and eat clean high vibrational food. Meditate. Your energies and your vibration will skyrocket.
Watch your self talk. What you say to yourself, you whisper it to the Universe. You generate around sixty to eighty thousands of thoughts per day. The research has shown that up to 80% of your thoughts are the same as the day before. What are they? Are they positive or negative? Do they inspire you or do they bring you down? Is it about you being limitless or limited? Do they encourage you or do they stop you and restrict you? Whatever it is that you say, you are imprinting your subconscious mind that in its turn seeks to express what you put there. Every day you are conjuring self-fulfilling prophecies so better make them good ones!
Intentional manifesting can be so much fun – you will enjoy the process of carving the life of your dreams. Intentional manifesting can be so powerful – now you know that you are a co-creator and you can manifest whatever you desire. Intentional manifesting can be so life changing – now you know that things do not just happen to you – you invite them to your life. Happy manifesting!