The first question I usually get when working with a client is- tell me a quick, fast way to manifest. But here is the truth there is no magic wand, there is no quick spell or mantra to instantly bring alive all your desires.
Manifesting is not some woo-woo term, or black magic or something that is new on this planet. It is just the way of life – it is to consciously create, whether it is the good, the bad, the ugly or amazing. It is how we create our reality through our thoughts, emotions and feelings.
So, when people ask me how can they manifest quicker, I usually give them a few things they absolutely MUST give up to create what they desire, easily and effortlessly.
When you live without these few things mentioned below, you get into flow, you get into alignment and the Universe delivers your desires with ease vs wanting, needing and begging.
So let’s get started….
– Let go of limiting words –
There are words and phrases in our regular language that get in the way of what we actually desire, like:
- I can’t do this
- I am not good enough
- This is not possible
Every time you use any of these you create a feeling and vibration of ‘lack’ – whether it is surety or limitations. These words have an ability to block you from your goals and visions, so a conscious effort must be taken to completely eradicate these from your vocabulary.
– Let go of waiting to be happy –
There is this destination addiction currently happening in the world where people believe they will be happy when…they get that perfect job, lose those 10 pounds, achieve that promotion, buy that dream home, fall in love with the perfect partner. But here is the problem – you should NOT be manifesting your desires to achieve happiness.
Everything you manifest will NOT make you happy, but by actually being on a higher, more happy and grateful vibration, it will help you manifest what you desire much more easily.
Look at your manifestations not as a destination, but using them towards your journey of happiness that you desire.
– Let go of the waiting for it to manifest –
It doesn’t matter if it is love that you desire, or winning a lottery or manifesting that specific person into your life – stop, waiting for it to happen and get on with your life.
Remember, that the Law of Attraction states that your thoughts are creating your reality, so if you are going to live like you are in a waiting room, you are going to attract even more waiting.
That person will not contact you if you are waiting for him/her because you are going to be on the vibration and frequency of ‘waiting’. But if you go out, meet other people, date, live your life and just enjoy every single day, you will get on the higher vibrations of love and happiness. And before you know it, that Mr. or Ms. Right will be in your life.
– Let go of trying to control –
This is one of the biggest struggles I have seen with all of my clients. I am constantly told that they have done their affirmations, visualizations, created their vision board, scripted and done so much more but yet they feel like they are not seeing their desires come to life.
But here is the honest truth – most of us get in our own way of what we desire because we don’t know how to trust or let go.
Remember, when you plant a seed, you do not keep unearthing it to see if you have done it right. You let it be, give it water, sunlight and even love and trust that the shoot will come up eventually.
Similarly, when we do the inner work, we have to learn to let go and trust in the Universe by living on the vibration that it shall happen in divine timing.